On Red Flags in the university context:
Just recently, a friend told me about an incident that happened years ago between her and her former student assistant colleague. "You know, he looked at me and, out of nowhere, said he'd love to see some nice breasts in the office." I’m taken aback. What did he say?! "He was always like that. Luckily, I don’t work with him anymore," is her response to my look.